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[girod]

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[girod]

Do you want to do it like this?

[knightbynight]

Without looking you in the eye and pretending you can't read my emotions without seeing my face?

Yes.

[girod]

What do you want to talk about, then?

[knightbynight]

1. We don't have to have sex for me to love you, but what we're doing (or not doing) is frustrating me.

2. I'm leaning heavily into non-sexual, no contact masochism so I don't bring evidence of it home to you. At some point the 'no contact' portion of that is going to stop working for me, and we really should discuss that.

[girod]

[ There's a long pause. ]

Bruce.

I've wanted to fuck your legs off for months.

And you never had to do that.

We should talk about whether I'm involved in giving that to you. But you don't have to pretend it isn't something you need.

[knightbynight]

I am aware that my legs are only marginally functional according to Leslie, but I'd like to keep them attached, Clark.

[That's humor and he might have actually laughed when reading that first reply. Just a little, even at work]

My thoughts - and before you say it feelings - are conflicted on you being more involved than some roughness. And bringing home physical evidence of what I need is not the same as knowing it's there. Your needs in this matter.

[girod]

I know they matter. But I don't feel entitled to say what you can and can't do with your body. And I also need to know you feel like you can do what you want and need without restricting yourself for me.

This isn't going to be any worse or better than when I see a scar left over from a battle.

[knightbynight]

Yes it is.

[girod]

Why do you think that?

[knightbynight]

Because it is a wholly different scenario in every regard.

Any physical damage I take in a battle is either:
Recklessness disregard for my life, or active desire to end it

A considered decision that the damage I will take will be worthwhile. Often backed by total faith one of you - probably you - will get me out in time.

This isn't quite either of those. It is management of already existing dysfunction, but it is still the result of dysfunction. It is a decision, but it is a conscious decision that is both purely self-serving and largely excludes you.

And I'd like to remind you, that you aren't happy when I am injured in a battlefield scenario, either.

[girod]

Not all battles are fought outside.

I stand by what I said, Bruce.

[knightbynight]

You always do.

Now tell me what you want to do with this.

[1/2]

[girod]

Physical intimacy first.

I'd like to do a date night, you and I, in a couple of days.

Then we'll talk about the rest.

[2/2]

[girod]

You'll have better data and you'll be able to consider things better after that.

Re: [2/2]

[knightbynight]

Done.

[girod]

I'm going to tell you I love you more often.

You going to be all right?

[knightbynight]

Call it exposure therapy. Do it until there are no occasional grimaces.

[girod]

Should I do the same thing with kissing you?

[knightbynight]

That depends on your tolerance for biting.
[Please do that. Please.]

[girod]

Extremely bite-tolerant.

[knightbynight]

Then put it on the list.

[girod]

It's on there.